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Jumat, 18 Februari 2011

SS501- YOU ARE MY HEAVEN (official music video)


Say my love... when you see my heart
Say my love... when you see my heart
Heorakhaejwo nal useum gadeuk an go honey mang seol ijima naegen neoppuniya honey
Bitnaneun jeo byeol cheoreom dalkomhan kiseu cheoreom sojunghan naui sarang oh baby jikyeo garyeohae

RAP) hanpumeh neol aneulsu isseo nan seolleim dubae sebae gaseumi ttwi janha
Amudo motmallyeo neol hyanghan nae mameun nado jal mollado nae majimak dochakeun nepum in geol
Saranghae saranghae saranghae saranghae love to day saranghae saranghae neoman love to night
Saranghae saranghae saranghae love for u only one for me oh my love for u

Sarangeun michildeut eojireoun kippeum hanareum hyangiro chaewojun saram
Geureon neoreul saranghae neoreul gidaryeowasseo ijeneun deomisang chameulsuga eopneun nae ma eum

RAP) neon naegeh haengbogeul gajyeodajun naui cheon guk (naui cheon guk)
Love you so nae mamsok neoppunya ma boo oh my sweet her
1, 2, 3 to the 4 & going ijeh negeh nae sarangeul jeonhae
1, 2, 3 to the 4 & going ijeh negeh nae sarangeul mal hae

Jaba jullae nal ojik neoui gyeoteh honey beoryeodujima nareul kkwak anajwo honey
Ijeneun da malhalkkeh ijeneun neol gajilkkeh jigeumkkeot ganjikhaedun nae mameul modu gajyeoga

Sarangeun michildeut eojireoun kippeum hanareum hyangiro chaewojun saram
Geureon neoreul saranghae neoreul gidaryeowasseo ijeneun deomisang chameulsuga eopneun nae ma eum
Sarangeun saebyeok nyeok iseulgateun haengbok na egeh haengbogeul an gyeojun saram
Geureon neoreul saranghae nae gen neohanappunya gajyeoga deo isang chameul suga eopneun nae ma eum

Saranghae saranghae love to day saranghae saranghae love to night
Saranghae saranghae love for u only one for me

Say my love... when you see my heart
I just want for you
Say my love... when you see my heart
I just want for you neomaneul saranghalkkeoya



Everyday I Love You (lyrics)




I don't know but I believe 
That some things are meant to be 
And that you'll make a better me 
Everyday I love you 

I never thought that dreams came true 
But you showed me that they do 
You know that I learn somethng new 
Everyday I love you 

'Cos I believe that destiny 
Is out of our control (don't you know that I do) 
And you'll never live until you love 
With all your heart and soul. 
It's a touch when I feel bad 
It's a smile when I get mad 
All the little things I am 
Everyday I love you 

Everyday I love you boy 
Everyday I love you 
'Cos I believe that destiny 
Is out of our control (don't you know that I do) 
And you'll never live until you love 
With all your heart and soul 

If I asked would you say yes? 
Together we're the very best 
I know that I am truly blessed 
Everyday I love you 
And I'll give you my best 
Everyday I love you 

Inspirational Quotes To Keep You Inspired and Motivated

Read through all these inspirational quotations and let them speak to your heart. In this day and times where as a woman you wear several hats at once, there's much chaos and disorder surrounding your life. So you're wanting to regain some peace, clarity and inspiration.


Sometimes, it's simply not possible to hear of inspiring quotes from the people living in your environment. Instead, negativity prevails in the air. People complain and people moan constantly about their lives. And you desperately need to hear of some positive and inspirational messages.


Here's where you can find some inspirational thoughts and words to soothe your soul. Be inspired by the wisdom of these great personalities and may you gain the needed motivation to pursue whatever you dream of achieving in your life.


Time passes real quickly and may you find the courage within you to go after your heart's desires. And when the time comes for you to look back at your life, may you be deeply grateful that you've led a life that has purpose and meaning to you.

May all these great inspirational quotes bring a spark to your day! Inspirational Quotes To Keep 
You Inspired and Motivated


Inspirational Quotes and Inspiring Quotes

A life without purpose is a languid, drifting thing; Every day we ought to review our purpose, saying to ourselves: This day let me make a sound beginning, for what we have hitherto done is naught!
-- Thomas A. Kempis
A man's character may be learned from the adjectives which he habitually uses in conversation.
-- Mark Twain
Aerodynamically the bumblebee shouldn't be able to fly, but the bumblebee doesn't know that so it goes on flying anyway.
-- Mary Kay Ash
All misfortune is but a stepping stone to fortune.
-- Henry David Thoreau
Anyone can sympathize with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathize with a friend's success.
-- Oscar Wilde
As long as you keep a person down, some part of you has to be down there to hold him down, so it means you cannot soar as you otherwise might.
-- Marian Anderson
Beauty, truth, friendship, love, creation – these are the great values of life. We can't prove them, or explain them, yet they are the most stable things in our lives.
-- Jesse Herman Holmes
Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones.
-- Phillips Brooks
Don’t limit yourself. Many people limit themselves to what they think they can do. You can go as far as your mind lets you. What you believe, remember, you can achieve.
-- Mary Kay Ash
Dreams are renewable. No matter what our age or condition, there are still untapped possibilities within us and new beauty waiting to be born.
-- Dr. Dale Turner
Each player must accept the cards life deals him or her: but once they are in hand, he or she alone must decide how to play the cards in order to win the game.
-- Voltaire
Enthusiasm is the best protection in any situation. Wholeheartedness is contagious. Give yourself, if you wish to get others.
-- David Seabury 
Everyone who has ever taken a shower has had an idea. It's the person who gets out of the shower, dries off, and does something about it that makes a difference.
-- Nolan Bushnell
Far away in the sunshine are my highest aspirations. I may not reach them, but I can look up and see the beauty, believe in them and try to follow where they lead.
-- Louisa May Alcott
Good judgment comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.
-- Will Rogers
Happiness is not a station you arrive at, but a manner of traveling.
-- Margaret B. Runbeck
Happy are those who dream dreams and are ready to pay the price to make them come true.
-- Leon J. Suenes
I can honestly say that I was never affected by the question of the success of an undertaking. If I felt it was the right thing to do, I was for it regardless of the possible outcome.
-- Golda Meir
I like living. I have sometimes been wildly, despairingly, acutely miserable, racked with sorrow, but through it all I still know quite certainly that just to be alive is a grand thing.
-- Agatha Christie
I think the key is for women not to set any limits.
-- Martina Navratilova
I'm not afraid of storms, for I'm learning to sail my ship.
-- Louisa May Alcott

I've learned from experience that the greater part of our happiness or misery depends on our dispositions and not on our circumstances.
-- Martha Washington
If you have knowledge, let others light their candles in it.
-- Margaret Fuller
If you have made mistakes...there is always another chance for you...you may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing we call "failure" is not the falling down, but the staying down.
-- Mary Pickford
If you wish to travel far and fast, travel light. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears.
-- Glenn Clark
If your ship doesn't come in, swim out to it.
-- Jonathan Winters
In every person who comes near you look for what is good and strong; honor that; try to imitate it, and your faults will drop off like dead leaves when their time comes.
-- John Ruskin 
Instruction does not prevent wasted time or mistakes; and mistakes themselves are often the best teachers of all.
-- James Anthony Froude 
It is more important to know where you are going than to get there quickly.
-- Mabel Newcomber
It is not because things are difficult that we do not dare, it is because we do not dare that they are difficult.
-- Seneca
It was a high counsel that I once heard given to a young person, "Always do what you are afraid to do.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself.
-- George Bernard Shaw
Live your life each day as you would climb a mountain. An occasional glance towards the summit keeps the goal in mind, but many beautiful scenes are to be observed from each new vantage point.
-- Harold B. Melchart 
Many of our fears are tissue paper thin, and a single courageous step would carry us clear through them.
-- Brendan Francis
No pleasure philosophy, no sensuality, no place nor power, no material success can for a moment give such inner satisfaction as the sense of living for good purposes, for maintenance of integrity, for the preservation of self-approval.
-- Minot Simons
Nothing contributes so much to tranquilize the mind as a steady purpose -- a point on which the soul may fix its intellectual eye.
-- Mary Shelley
Nothing is predestined: The obstacles of your past can become the gateways that lead to new beginnings.
-- Ralph Blum
Ordinary riches can be stolen, real riches cannot. In your soul are infinitely precious things that cannot be taken from you.
-- Oscar Wilde 
Perseverance is failing nineteen times and succeeding the twentieth.
-- Julie Andrews
Perseverance is a great element of success. If you only knock long enough and loud enough at the gate, you are sure to wake up somebody.
-- Henry Wadsworth Longfellow
Reflect upon your present blessings, of which every man has many—not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.
-- Charles Dickens
Success is the good fortune that comes from aspiration, desperation, perspiration and inspiration.
-- Evan Esar
The abundant life does not come to those who have had a lot of obstacles removed from their path by others. It develops from within and is rooted in strong mental and moral fiber.
-- William Mather Lewis
The beauty of the soul shines out when a man bears with composure one heavy mischance after another, not because he does not feel them, but because he is a man of high and heroic temper.
-- Aristotle 
The best portion of a good man's life is the little, nameless, unremembered acts of kindness and love.
-- William Wordsworth
The best way to prepare for life is to begin to live.
-- Elbert Hubbard
The secret of getting ahead is getting started. The secret of getting started is breaking your complex overwhelming tasks into small manageable tasks, and then starting on the first one.
-- Mark Twain
The three great essentials to achieving anything worthwhile are; first, hard work, second, stick-to-it-iveness, and third, common sense.
-- Thomas Edison
We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
Whatever course you decide upon, there is always someone to tell you that you are wrong. There are always difficulties arising which tempt you to believe that your critics are right. To map out a course of action and follow it to an end requires courage.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson
You don't get to choose how you're going to die, or when. You can only decide how you're going to live now.
-- Joan Baez
You must learn day by day, year by year, to broaden your horizon. The more things you love, the more you are interested in, the more you enjoy, the more you are indignant about, the more you have left when anything happens.
-- Ethel Barrymore
If you're ready to learn what changes you need to make to turn your life around, and if you want to start keeping and reaching your goals.

Kamis, 17 Februari 2011

Feeling Emotionally Overwhelmed?


like a vine on a tree, life can feel emotionally overwhelming sometimesFeeling emotionally overwhelmed can be a terribly stressful experience but by becoming aware of where that emotion is really coming from, you can stop it in its tracks.


Do you find that everything seems to happen all at once? For example, you feel completely stressed out and overwhelmed by your life or even that all your money seems to be just flying out the window right now? And, it always seems to happen all at once. Why is that?
Well, the next time it happens, try to remember the strangling vine theory that I’m just about to tell you and see if that’s what’s happening in your situation. If it is, then you’ll be able to turn everything around within just a few moments.
First, have you ever seen those vines that seem to grow faster than anything else and also seem to choke out all the other plants? Sometimes, they can smother entire trees. The vine just completely consumes the entire area. That’s the vine I want you to visualize.
Now, think about the last time you felt completely emotionally overwhelmed by life. Now ask yourself:
- When did the overwhelmed feeling start?
- Did it all start with one event? 

What were your thoughts really consumed with when you were completely stressed out?
Perhaps, you felt overworked, scared, and stressed with a project you were required to finish at work. Then, when you went home, you suddenly felt pressured by your kids or your husband to have something completed there. There just seemed so much to do. But, if you think back, it started with the project at work.
It's important to realize where the initial feeling of being emotionally overwhelmed started. That's what your brain is fixated on. Until that's resolved, it will judge all other events in your life with the same feeling of overwhelm.
I’ll give you an example. After a recent trip, I came back to find an overwhelming number of emails that I now needed to answer. I felt like I was going to be crushed by all these emails. How was I ever going to answer them all? I procrastinated with dealing with them and they continued to pile up even higher. But, now I was also feeling overwhelmed not only by the emails but also everything else that I felt I needed to do. It just seemed like there was so much to do and not enough time to do any of it. But when I stopped and thought about what was causing the greatest overwhelm, I realized it was the emails. So, then if I thought about the other projects without the worry of the emails, I realized that they weren’t really as bad as I thought. It was just because I was overwhelmed with one thing (the emails) that everything else suddenly felt so incredibly overwhelming. Just like the vines, the one thought I had with the emails was strangling how I viewed all my other tasks as well.

find yourself among the vinesThe vine loves fear thoughts
This strangling vine concept can happen instantly with fear thoughts too. You read about an act of violence in the newspaper and you suddenly feel unsafe in your home. One of my friends recently had her house egged by drunk teenagers. I don’t think it was intentional against her or her family. She just happens to live in a convenient location (around the corner from a liquor store) and they were drunk and thought it’d be funny. To her, she felt almost violated by their act. It made her feel unsafe in her own home and that she should be on guard against any other potential attacks. She'd never been afraid of being in her house alone before but suddenly she now was. She also discovered she was starting to feel fearful about everything whether it was walking to the subway or even driving her car to the grocery store. She felt like she had to be on guard against everything. The world was suddenly a very fearful place for her.
When she thought about when her fear started, she remembered the egging incident. This one fear thought was taking over and she felt fearful about everything. When she took the time to consider where the fear had come from, she was able to rip the vine out. The world was not this new fearful place. It was the same as it always had been, there had just been one event that had caused all her thoughts to suddenly look for being attacked. She had let the fear vine consume her entire life but once she realized where it was really coming from, she could also stop it.
Whenever she felt suddenly consumed by fear, she could take a step back and ask herself why she was really feeling afraid. If she could trace it back to the original egging incident, she was able to let it go. In some situations, your fear is truly valuable in order to keep you safe, but in this situation, her mind was feeling constantly fearful due to one past event. By stepping back from the fear allowed her to see what was really happening from a different perspective.

Definitely happens where money is involved
Another common situation where you'll find the vine suddenly appear is when you have a sudden unexpected expense happen. Maybe your car needs repairs or you need to fix something in your home like a hot water heater. Your brain suddenly fixates on the fear of how are you going to pay for this expense. You'll now suddenly notice everything else that you need to pay for, even if those are expected payments. You'll suddenly think that groceries are too expensive, buying your morning coffee is now too expensive and you'll feel like everyone is just wanting money from you. The fear of the first expense is clouding all your other experiences. The strangling vine has taken over your mind.

Why cutting the strangling vine at its source works
The whole key behind this strategy is for you to know the "why" behind your reaction. You're not just reacting to your feelings without thinking. Instead, you're taking the time to understand what your emotions are trying to tell you. Once you acknowledge them, it becomes so much easier to stop the escalation of fear and usually you find you can then just let them go.
It’s a quick step to stop whenever you’re feeling overwhelmed and simply ask yourself where the feelings are really coming from. Are they stemming from one incident? If they are, then it’s easier to detach from your feelings of overwhelm. You know what's causing it. The simple act of being aware of why you're feeling stressed can be enough to free yourself from being completely emotionally overwhelmed by everything else in your life. You've managed to stop your imagination from running wild and imagining the worst of everything.
You regain control over your thoughts and can now go back to moving forwards with your life rather than getting caught up in the negative emotions like fear. You'll no longer feel emotionally overwhelmed because you've gained a new understanding of yourself. You're once again the master of your thoughts and not the other way around.

*ReNuNgAn*

Ada seorang pemuda yang lama sekolah di luar negri Kembali ke tanah air. Sesampainya di rumah ia meminta kepada orang tuanya untuk mencari seorang guru agama,ustadz atau siapa saja yang bias menjawab tiga pertanyaanya. Akhirnya orang tua pemuda itu mendapatkan orang tersebut,seorang ustadz yang terkenal arif dan bijaksana.
Pemuda : anda siapa? Dan apakah bisa menjawab pertanyaan-pertanyaan dari saya?
Ustadz : saya hamba Allah dan dengan izin-Nya saya akan menjawab pertanyaan anda.
Pemuda : anda yakin? Sedangkan profesor dan banyak orang yang pintar tidak mampu menjawab pertanyaan saya.
Ustadz : saya akan menjawab sejauh kemampuan saya.
Pemuda : saya ada tiga pertanyaan:
1. Kalau memang Tuhan ada, tunjukan wujud Tuhan kepada saya.
2. Apakah yang dinamakan takdir.
3. Kalau syaitan diciptakan dari api kenapa dimasukan ke dalam neraka yang terbuat dari api, tentu tidak menyakitkan buat syaitan. Sebab mereka memiliki unsure yang sama. Apakah Tuhan tidak pernah berfikir sejauh itu?.
(Tiba-tiba ustadz tersebut menampar pipi pemuda tadi dengan keras)
Pemuda : (sambil menahan sakit) Kenpa anda marah kepad saya?
Ustadz : saya tidak marah…Tamparan itu adalah jawaban saya atas 3 pertanyaan yang anda ajukan kepad saya.
Pemuda : saya sungguh-sungguh tidak mengerti.
Ustadz : bagaimana rasanya tamparan saya?.
Pemuda : tentu saja saya merasakan sakit.
Ustadz : jadi anda percaya bahwa sakit itu ada?.
Pemuda : Ya!
Ustadz : tunjukan kepada saya wujud sakit itu?.
Pemuda : saya tidak bisa.
Ustadz : itulah jawaban pertanyaan pertama…kita semua mersakan kewujudan Tuhan tanpa mampu melihat wujudnya.
Ustadz : apakah tadi malam anda bermimpi akan ditampar oleh saya?
Pemuda : tidak!.
Ustadz : apakah pernah terpikir oleh anda akan menerima tamparan dari saya hari ini?.
Pemuda : tidak!.
Ustadz : itulah yang dinamakan takdir(jawaban pertanyaan ke-dua)
Ustadz : terbuat dari apa tangan yang saya gunakan untuk menampar anda?.
Pemuda : kulit.
Ustadz : terbuat dari apa pipi anda?.
Pemuda : kulit.
Ustadz : bagaimana rasanya tamparan saya?.
Pemuda : sakit.
Ustadz : walaupun syaitan terbuat dari api dan neraka juga terbuat dari api, jika Allah menghendaki maka neraka akan menjadi tempat yang menyakitkan untuk syaitan.(jawaban pertanyaan ke-tiga).

To MaKe Ur life so easy

When we were young life was easier, right?  I know sometimes it seems that way.  But the truth is life still is easy.  It always will be.  The only difference is we’re older, and the older we get, the more we complicate things for ourselves.
You see, when we were young we saw the world through simple, hopeful eyes.  We knew what we wanted and we had no biases or concealed agendas.  We liked people who smiled.  We avoided people who frowned.  We ate when we were hungry, drank when we were thirsty, and slept when we were tired.
As we grew older our minds became gradually disillusioned by negative external influences.  At some point we began to hesitate and question our instincts.  When a new obstacle or growing pain arose, we stumbled and a fell down.  This happened several times.  Eventually we decided we didn’t want to fall again, but rather than solving the problem that caused us to fall, we avoided it all together.
As a result, we ate comfort food and drank alcohol to numb our wounds and fill our voids.  We worked late nights on purpose to avoid unresolved conflicts at home.  We started holding grudges, playing mind games, and subtly deceiving others and ourselves to get ahead.  And when it didn’t work out, we lived above our means, bought things we didn’t need, and ate and drank some more just to make ourselves feel better again.
Over the course of time, we made our lives more and more difficult, and we started losing touch with who we really are and what we really need.
So let’s get back to the basics, shall we?  Let’s make things simple again.  It’s easy.  Here are 60 ways to do just that:
Life is not complex.  We are complex.  Life is simple,
and the simple thing is the right thing.
- Oscar Wilde
  1. Don’t try to read other people’s minds.  Don’t make other people try to read yours.  Communicate.
  2. Be polite, but don’t try to be friends with everyone around you.  Instead, spend time nurturing your relationships with the people who matter most to you.
  3. Your health is your life, keep up with it.  Get an annual physical check-up.
  4. Live below your means.  Don’t buy stuff you don’t need.  Always sleep on big purchases.  Create a budget and savings plan and stick to both of them.
  5. Get enough sleep every night.  An exhausted mind is rarely productive.
  6.  Get up 30 minutes earlier so you don’t have to rush around like a mad man.  That 30 minutes will help you avoid speeding tickets, tardiness, and other unnecessary headaches.
  7. Get off your high horse, talk it out, shake hands or hug, and move on.
  8. Don’t waste your time on jealously.  The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
  9. Surround yourself with people who fill your gaps.  Let them do the stuff they’re better at so you can do the stuff you’re better at.
  10. Organize your living space and working space.  Read David Allen’s bookGetting Things Done for some practical organizational guidance.
  11. Get rid of stuff you don’t use.
  12. Ask someone if you aren’t sure.
  13. Spend a little time now learning a time-saving trick or shortcut that you can use over and over again in the future.
  14. Don’t try to please everyone.  Just do what you know is right.
  15. Don’t drink alcohol or consume recreational drugs when you’re mad or sad.  Take a jog instead.
  16. Be sure to pay your bills on time.
  17. Fill up your gas tank on the way home, not in the morning when you’re in a hurry.
  18. Use technology to automate tasks.
  19. Handle important two-minute tasks immediately.
  20. Relocate closer to your place of employment.
  21. Don’t steal.
  22. Always be honest with yourself and others.
  23. Say “I love you” to your loved ones as often as possible.
  24. Single-task.  Do one thing at a time and give it all you got.
  25. Finish one project before you start another.
  26. Be yourself.
  27. When traveling, pack light.  Don’t bring it unless you absolutely must.
  28. Clean up after yourself.  Don’t put it off until later.
  29. Learn to cook, and cook.
  30. Make a weekly (healthy) menu, and shop for only the items you need.
  31. Consider buying and cooking food in bulk.  If you make a large portion of something on Sunday, you can eat leftovers several times during the week without spending more time cooking.
  32. Stay out of other people’s drama.  And don’t needlessly create your own.
  33. Buy things with cash.
  34. Maintain your car, home, and other personal belongings you rely on.
  35. Smile often, even to complete strangers.
  36. If you hate doing it, stop it.
  37. Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby brother.
  38. Apologize when you should.
  39. Write things down.
  40. Be curious.  Don’t be scared to learn something new.
  41. Explore new ideas and opportunities often.
  42. Don’t be shy.  Network with people.  Meet new people.
  43. Don’t worry too much about what other people think about you.
  44. Spend time with nice people who are smart, driven, and likeminded.
  45. Don’t text and drive.  Don’t drink and drive.
  46. Drink water when you’re thirsty.
  47. Don’t eat when you’re bored.  Eat when you’re hungry.
  48. Exercise every day.  Simply take a long, relaxing walk or commit 30 minutes to an at-home exercise program like the P90X workout.
  49. Let go of things you can’t change.  Concentrate on things you can.
  50. Find hard work you actually enjoy doing.
  51. Realize that the harder you work, the luckier you will become.
  52. Follow your heart.  Don’t waste your life fulfilling someone else’s dreams and desires.
  53. Set priorities for yourself and act accordingly.
  54. Take it slow and add up all your small victories.
  55. However good or bad a situation is now, it will change.  Accept this simple fact.
  56. Excel at what you do.  Otherwise you’ll just frustrate yourself.
  57. Mature, but don’t grow up too fast.
  58. Realize that you’re never quite as right as you think you are.
  59. Build something or do something that makes you proud.
  60. Make mistakes, learn from them, laugh about them, and move along.