ANDILAU,, Antara Dilema Dan Galau

Beberapa hari ini virus galau sedang melanda kampusku dan entah mengapa banyak orang menganggap kalau aku  adalah salah satu orang yang terjangkit virus itu .

Well, harus aku akui mungkin akhir-akhir ini aku mulai menunjukkan tanda-tanda kegalauan seperti sering mendengar lagu-lagu galau, sebentar-sebentar mellow, suka bikin tulisan yang galau-galau, dan suka mencari quotes-quotes untuk orang galau .

Untuk semua galauers, menggalau itu gak dosa kok. Menggalau itu seni. Wkwkwk. Galau itu bisa jadi pelajaran juga dan satu lagi, GALAU ITU INDAH

Berikut beberapa Quotes galau yang berhasil dikumpulkan (lebih tepatnya ini quotes yang sesuai keadaan hati aq saat ini) :’)

“..It gives me time to stay, to watch you fade away I dream of you tonight tomorrow you’ll be gone I wish by God you’ll stay..” –The Second You Sleep

(by Saybia)

“..desperate for your voice, listening to the song we use to sing in the car, do you remember?..” –Your Call (by Secondhand Serenade)

“..where’d you go? I miss you so, seems like it’s been forever that you’ve been

gone..” –Where’d You Go (by Fortminor)

“This is the way you left me, I’m not pretending, no hope, no love, no glory, no happy ending..” –Happy Ending (by Mika)

“..and the days feel like years when I’m alone..” –When You’re Gone (by Avril Lavigne)

“..when you walk away I count the steps that you take, do you see how much I need you right now? when you’re gone the pieces of my heart are missing you, when you’re gone the face I came to know is missing to..” –When You’re Gone (by Avril Lavigne)

“..and I’ll forget the world that I knew, but I swear I won’t forget you, oh if my voice could reach back through the past, I’d wishper in your ear, Oh darling I wish you were here..” –Vanilla Twilight (by Owl City)

“..all I ever think about is you, you got me hypnotized so mesmerized and I just got to know, do you ever think when you’re all alone all that we can be where this thing can go? am I crazy or falling in love? is it really just another crush? do you catch a breath when I look at you? are you holding back like the way I do? cause I’ve tried and tried to walk away but I know this crush ain’t going away..” –Crush (by David Archuletta)

“..time can’t erase a feeling this strong..” –Always Be My Baby (by David Cook)

“..I can’t take my eyes off of you..” –A Twist In My Story (by Secondhand Serenade)

“..you’re breaking my heart don’t tell me that we will never be together..” –It’s Not Over (by Secondhand Serenade)

“..I’m missing you I never know how much you meant to me..” –When It’s Over (by Sugar Ray)

“..I’m tryna erase you from my mind..” –It’s Over (by Jesse McCartney)

“..It’s been about a year now, ain’t seen or heard from you I’ve been missing you crazy..” –How Do You Sleep (by Jesse McCartney)

“..I get so high when you’re with me..” –Your Love Is My Drug (by Ke$ha)

“..but there’s just one, no one like you, you’re my only, my only one..” –Only One (by Yellowcard)

“..mungkin karena aku berharap kau dapat mengerti cintaku..” –Bertahan (by Rama)

“..will I ever see you’re smiling back at me? how will I know if I let you go?..” –If I Let You Go (by Westlife)

“..you are the only exception..” –The Only Exception (by Paramore)

“..’cause I love you wheter is wrong or right..” –If You’re Not The One (by Daniel Bedingfield)

“..ku kan selalu rapuh..” –Rapuh (by Joeniar Arif)

“..a reason for all that I do and the reason is you..” –The Reason (by Hoobastank)

“..I really shouldn’t miss you but I can’t let you go..” –My Life Would Suck Without You (by Kelly Clarkson)

“..you got a piece of me and honestly, my life would suck without you..” –My Life Would Suck Without You (by Kelly Clarkson)

“..wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you, whatever it takes, or how my heart breaks, I will be right here waiting for you..” –Right Here Waiting (by Richard Marx)

“..I’m not the only one for you but you’re the only for me..” –Stay Close Don’t Go (by Secondhand Serenade)

“..and life is so cruel without you here beside me..” –Unbreak My Heart (by Toni Braxton)

“..what can I do to make you love me? what can I do to make you care? what can I say to make you feel this? what can I do to get you there?..” –What Can I Do (by The Corrs)

“..when you look me in the eyes I catch a glimpse of heaven, I find my paradise when you look me in the eyes..” –When You Look Me In The Eyes (by Jonas Brother)

yak itu tadi quote2 galau yang gue ambil dari berbagai lagu. haha maaf ya kalo cuma ada sedikit HA HA. keep reading my blog:)

SMILE CAN MAKE YOUR LIFE EASY

Some days, it’s easy to smile. You wake up to the sounds of birds chirping, with the warm glow of the morning sun cradling your face. You take several deep, cleansing breaths standing beneath a perfectly cascading shower, just before drawing a smiley face on the steamed-up glass with your index finger.

Your roommate or significant other makes your coffee, just the way you like it. You hit every traffic light. You sing to your favorite tunes. And you arrive at work refreshed, excited, and anxious to create and collaborate.

But not every day starts this way. Sometimes you wake up to chaos, in your head or in the world around you. You hit snags, and bumps, and roadblocks at every turn. You try too hard, or don’t try enough, and things fall apart, or things fall short.

You struggle, you fight yourself and other people, and you find yourself wishing you could stop the world so you could get off for a while.

But there is an alternative. When things go wrong, you can fall down or look up. You can shut down or wake up, all over again, starting from right where you stand. You can accept that the days won’t always look bright, but commit to finding something worth smiling about. Not sure what that might be? No worries, friends! I have a few ideas….

1. Call a friend who knows how to laugh at herself to remember what it’s like not to take yourself too seriously.

2. Ask a friend to come over and make you smile. It’s really simple and obvious, I know, but sometimes we forget to just ask for what we need.

3. Read a letter, card, or email from someone who thought of you when you were going through a hard time.

4. Search your deleted email folder for “thank you.” You probably made a huge difference in someone’s life recently—remember that now!

5. Text a friend, “What’s the funniest thing you’ve heard today?”

6. Text your significant other with a silly picture of you and ask for one in return.

7. Ask your significant other to make you breakfast in bed—and to be creative with it. (I have no idea what that could mean, but just seeing the thought s/he puts into it will likely make it extra fun).

8. Post on your Facebook page, “What made you smile today?” (Like I often do on the Tiny Buddha Facebook page!)

9. Tell a child in your life that you need a hug. Just try to stay stoic when she throws her little arms around your neck and sings “The Sun Will Come out Tomorrow.”

10. Alternatively, ask that child to draw a picture of you and him or her together.

11. Take a break to enjoy a simple pleasure that you often multitask—like a cup of flavored coffee, or a favorite snack.

12. Rearrange your furniture. Maybe it’s just me, but I feel a sense of accomplishment when I do this, and I also really enjoy the novelty of creating a space with a different feel.

13. Give your cat a ball of yarn or give your dog a wrapped gift and watch him try to open it. Pets playing = instant smile, at least, for me!

14. Go out and invest in a hula hoop. It’s nearly impossible to stay glum when you get moving like you haven’t since you were a kid. (Alternative option: jump around on a trampoline and just try to not smile!)

15. For the ladies: paint your toe nails a bright color that you wouldn’t usually pick.

16. Ask a child in your life to do your hair. Seeing yourself with massive 80s bangs (ladies) or a Mohawk-inspired look (men) is sure to get you laughing!

17. Blast your favorite music and dance around with absolutely no regard for rhythm or appearance.

18. Bake something that has a silly face on it. Really—this is a valid suggestion!

19. Eat food that requires you to use your hands, and get messy—and then really get messy. Get rib sauce all over your face and just go with it.

20. Make some type of arts and crafts project, just like you would have as a kid, with plans to give it to someone else. (Two-part smile: when you see the ridiculous thing you made, and when you see your friend’s face after receiving it).

21. Make a snack you loved as a kid. Maybe it’s peanut butter and banana sandwiches, or a sundae with gummy bears on it.

22. Watch a movie or cartoon from your childhood. (Smurfs always do it for me, especially when I remember how my mother called them devil worshipers because Papa Smurf did magic.)

23. Write a hand-written letter to someone you love, using different colored pens.

24. Look at pictures from your childhood. I can’t help but smile when I see the ridiculously thick bangs my mother gave me (translate: the front of a mullet).

25. Pop in the video/DVD from your child’s last recital—or your childhood recital.

26. Call your oldest friend, start a conversation with, “’Member when we…,” and end it with, “That was awesome, huh?”

27. Do an updated version of that awesome thing, right now. Really—grab your markers, or your bike, or your flashlight, or you video camera, and have a childlike adventure.

28. Make a magazine collage of things that always make you smile. Consider it a mini vision board for moments you’d like to create soon.

29. Dress up in clothes you love, just to run a simple errand. When you like how you look, you generally feel good.

30. Wear bright colored socks. If your pants are long, wear a different color on each foot. It’s like a little private joke that only you and your feet know about.

31. Make a beeline to your favorite spot, whether it’s a beach, bike trail, or mall. (No judgment—it’s your favorite spot.)

32. Make time to see the sunrise or sunset, and make it an occasion. Invite a friend and bring wine and a picnic basket. Make a memory, and make it beautiful.

33. Walk by your neighborhood park and soak in the innocence, excitement, and wonder.

34. Grab your camera and go outside with a mission to capture things that make you happy.

35. Make a list of all the amazing things you’ve accomplished and experienced this year, and then bask in the beauty of it all.

36. Tell someone how much they mean to you. Say all the things that might make you feel kind of vulnerable, and then think about how special you just made them feel.

37. Help a neighbor with something, whether it’s pulling weeds from a woman’s garden or running an errand for an elderly man who no longer drives. Two part happiness—forgetting about your own problems, and showing someone that neighborly kindness is not a thing of the past.

38. Ask a friend to tell you what’s new with his or her passion project. Same idea: forget about yourself for a while and watch someone else light up.

39. Commit a random act of kindness and tell that person to pass it on.

40. People-watch with a dialogue-writing slant. As in, find two people sitting across the street and make up a ridiculous conversation in your head that they could be having. I know, it sounds silly, and it is. But it always makes me laugh! (I got this from the movie Date Night, in case it sounds familiar.)

QUOTES FOR SURVIVE

• A divorce is like an amputation: you survive it, but there's less of you.
• A lot of films need planning in order to survive at all. It's part of the dog and pony show.
• A poet can survive everything but a misprint.
• A relationship isn't going to make me survive. It's the cherry on top.
• According to the Small Business Administration, more than 70 percent of all family businesses do not survive through the second generation, and 8 percent do not make it to a third.
• Aggression is inherently destructive of relationships. People and ideologies are pitted against each other, believing that in order to survive, they must destroy the opposition.
• All I'm trying to do is survive and make good out of the dirty, nasty, unbelievable lifestyle that they gave me.
• All societies on the verge of death are masculine. A society can survive with only one man; no society will survive a shortage of women.
• All you may need to be happy is love, but to survive you need money!
• Although every step must be taken to protect against a chemical or biological attack in America, our nation would survive the use of those weapons as we did when anthrax was mailed to our Capitol and other targets.
• An extreme optimist is a man who believes that humanity will probably survive even if it doesn't take his advice.
• And in which we say that life is eternal but continue to struggle to survive.
• And of course, now that Bernard and I have found each other forever, we're determined to create our own little world in order to survive the one we're in.
• And time for reflection with colleagues is for me a lifesaver; it is not just a nice thing to do if you have the time. It is the only way you can survive.
• Any comic is a tragic soul. Comedy is one of the things that allows one to survive. Particularly if one has been in the process of separating off the emotions, it's one place you can process them.
• Any poet, if he is to survive beyond his 25th year, must alter; he must seek new literary influences; he will have different emotions to express.
• Art is permitted to survive only if it renounces the right to be different, and integrates itself into the omnipotent realm of the profane.
• As actors, we deal with rejection so much more than any other business. So I don't care how much of a genius you are, if you don't have the propensity to be able to get back up every time you get knocked down, then you're not going to survive.
• Assuming that his talent can survive the increasing strain, there is one scarcely avoidable danger that lies ahead of the pupil on his road to mastery.
• Authority has every reason to fear the skeptic, for authority can rarely survive in the face of doubt.
• Baseball must be a great game to survive the fools who run it.
• Being over seventy is like being engaged in a war. All our friends are going or gone and we survive amongst the dead and the dying as on a battlefield.
• Both class and race survive education, and neither should. What is education then? If it doesn't help a human being to recognize that humanity is humanity, what is it for? So you can make a bigger salary than other people?
• But I am a blasted tree; the bolt has entered my soul; and I felt then that I should survive to exhibit what I shall soon cease to be - a miserable spectacle of wrecked humanity, pitiable to others and intolerable to myself.
• But I love the idea - whether it's in my work or where I live - exploring new frontier, and I like putting myself in strange places and trying to survive and figure things out and gather up an infrastructure. I like knowing that I could figure out a way to live anywhere.
• But I think that the spirit of protectionism would be the grave of European cinema. You cannot protect something by building a fence around it and thinking that this will help it survive.
• But try if you can to support, whether it's AIDS or the cancer foundation, so that someone else might survive, might prosper, and might actually be cured of this dreaded disease.
• But when you're deprived of it for a lengthy period then you value human companionship. But you have to survive and so you devise all kinds of mental exercises and it's amazing.
• By the end of the summer of 1973 I thought it was virtually impossible for South Vietnam to survive. How in the heck could they?
• Civilization as it is known today could not have evolved, nor can it survive, without an adequate food supply.
• Comunication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we have to act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we have to act alone.
• Concord, solidarity, and mutual help are the most important means of enabling animal species to survive.
• Conflict cannot survive without your participation.
• Confront them with annihilation, and they will then survive; plunge them into a deadly situation, and they will then live. When people fall into danger, they are then able to strive for victory.